Saturday, January 29, 2011

Christian Culture and Raising Kids

Richard, Michael, Jerid and I have been having an interesting discussion on the intersection of public schools and Christianity in America. (That discussion should be viewable by all, but when I tried to get to it while signed out, FB asked me to sign in. So I'd be curious to know of non-FB-contacts of mine can see/comment on that thread.) I just started rereading Resident Aliens (by Hauerwas and Willimon). I hit two passages in the short section I've read so far that seemed to hit on this topic, so I thought I'd share them here.

The second paragraph touches on raising children, but the first paragraph explains the context of the term "colony":
The image that evokes this adventure for us is, again, found in Philippians 3:20 -- "our commonwealth is in heaven." Moffatt more vividly translates this politeuma as "We are a colony of heaven." The Jews in Dispersion were well acquainted with what it meant to live as strangers in a strange land, aliens trying to stake out a living on someone else's turf. Jewish Christians had already learned, in their day-to-day life in the synagogue, how important it was for resident aliens to gather to name the name, to tell the story, to sing Zion's songs in a land that didn't know Zion's God.

A colony is a beachhead, an outpost, an island of one culture in the middle of another, a place where the values of home are reiterated and passed on to the young, a place where the distinctive language and life-style of the resident aliens are lovingly nurtured and reinforced.

The context of this second quote was the change in American culture between the days when everything was shut down on Sundays and "The church was the only show in town," to our present situation where there are many alternatives on a Sunday morning and people no longer feel obligated to attend a religious service of any sort on a Sunday. This change, by the way, is a repeating theme in our Sunday school classes and gals Bible study in our congregation and therefore one that is frequently at the forefront of my mind.

The demise of the Constantinian world view, the gradual decline of the notion that the church needs some sort of surrounding "Christian" culture to prop it up and mold its young, is not a death to lament. It is an opportunity to celebrate. The decline of the old, Constantianian synthesis between the church and the world means that we American Christians are at last free to be faithful in a way that makes being a Christian today an exciting adventure.

There has definitely been a change in American culture over the past decades. It's a change that we are probably still right in the middle of. But to the extent that it has freed people to follow through on their beliefs, whether Christian, atheist, humanist, or some other system of belief, I think that's a good thing. I'm all for integrity and I see no integrity in a culture that encourages people to go through the motions of going to church and calling oneself a Christian if that doesn't match either your beliefs or the way you live your life outside of the obligatory Sunday morning service. I also think it's an important change in how kids grow up today. Rather than being raised in the heart of a culture that often said one thing and did another, the children of Christians are hopefully being confronted with the Scriptures in a way that makes it clear what encompasses Christianity and what has been tacked on by people and worldly culture.

In a sense, what we are living in the midst of is the fruition of the Reformation. In America, we have finally come to a point where we can separate "church" from "country" or "culture" and see it for what God has said it should be and not what we have said it should be. Of course you can't separate church from culture. But you can recognize a culture that is of the church and a culture that is not of the church and see that those are two distinct things, just as the culture of the colony will be different than the culture of the host country where the colony is located.

So what does that look like as we raise our children? Jerid's original post that got me traipsing down the education discussion road was this:
‎"Over the next ten years, nearly half of all new jobs will require education that goes beyond a high school degree." -President Obama

This is little because the knowledge required has increased. It is mostly because schools, especially public schools, are spending more time teaching social agendas and less time demanding excellence in knowledge and ability.

I do think that schools teach social agendas, for good and for ill. I like the overall social agenda at our kids' school - one that encourages Independence, open-mindedness, integrity, caring, and community involvement. (Granted, how that plays out isn't always what I'd wish for. There's a curriculum, and then there's staff, and sometimes the attitudes of the latter overrides some of the positive aspects of the former.) Our kids perform well on standardized tests, so their knowledge seems to be proficient despite the social agenda. And I think that more often than not, the social attitudes and teaching of the staff mirrors our own beliefs, even though the teachers' spiritual beliefs might not align with our own. The difference doesn't lie in the what, but the why, and our children learn that through their interaction with our Christian colony.

(Completely tangential: Though we raise our kids in our colony, whether they choose to remain in our colony is a decision that we leave up to them. But that's a topic for another day.)

There's of course an implied "agree/disagree" question in this post, but I'd also be curious to hear of examples of social agendas in the school that hinder the ability of a colony (of any sort - Christian, Muslim, environmental, gay, Mexican, etc.) to raise their children according to their own colony's values. I don't think that being challenged on your beliefs is a hindrance. Harassment is. 

Sunday, January 23, 2011

Familiarity is not Proof

Just because something is familiar does not mean that it is true.

The thing might very well be true, but you cannot prove that it is true simply by saying that it is so because it is a concept you are comfortable with or have known for as long as you can remember.

You may be able to make a statement of veracity based on experience or study or logic, which may or may not be accurate. But to fall back upon a thing being true simply because you've grown up thinking it is so and the idea is familiar and comfortable is just plain silly, and you shouldn't be surprised if you are ridiculed for your ideas.

Thursday, January 20, 2011

"What if Church Felt More Like Home?"

[I wrote this a couple of weeks ago, so references to recent events aren't so recent any more.]

This past Sunday, as I sat at the back of the sanctuary getting ready to press the "record" button when Don started his sermon, I noted to myself that I knew everyone in the room by name. This wasn't any huge revelation, of course. It was just one of those thoughts that pops into your head and you know you've known it, but your brain has just articulated it for you again. And of course, there was the corresponding thought that, there are some congregations where not even the pastor knows everyone by name.

My mom sent me a link a few days ago to a social network that is being used by a church we used to attend when I was growing up. It's the largest church, west of the Mississippi, in the denomination that we're a part of. So I'm talking about a church where probably even the pastor doesn't know everyone in the congregation by name. (When I was a member there, the youth group alone was about 100 kids. We were sort of a sub-congregation within the larger congregation.)

The social network is called The Table Project and is introduced by a pretty nifty video. I agree that church should be intimate. It should feel like family. That is, after all, how the Bible itself refers to the church. (Galatians 6:10 "Therefore, as we have opportunity, let us do good to all people, especially to those who belong to the family of believers.") But what I find ironic is that it's the churches that are so large that they really don't feel like a family that this Table Project is reaching out to. They're saying, we have the answer that will bring your congregation together. It's like taking a rather large problem and saying, "We have bandages that will cover that."

Instead, it seems like there needs to be a solution that deals with the heart of the problem, rather than just bandaging it up. I love being online and meeting with people socially via the internet. So I have no problem with social networking, even within a church. And I think that what they say is true about feeling more connected to people when you've connected with them throughout the week online. So I'm not trying to bash their product. It sounds cool. Given that the congregation uses it, it could even be helpful. But it still feels like it's glancing off a larger problem - and perhaps church size isn't the issue so much as church attitude.

There were a couple of churches in San Francisco that we were involved with in one way or another that took "church" seriously. I don't mean they had particularly fancy services or were staunchly legalistic or anything like that. What I mean is that they talked about what "church" means. They had training events and discussion times and read books together on the nature and purpose of the church. They didn't just assume that everyone was on the same page. And their conclusions were often along the lines that church is a family, a building with each of us fitted together with Jesus as the cornerstone, a colony of people whose first and foremost allegiance was to a heavenly kingdom, not an earthly one. With a view like that, walking into a gathering of believers isn't a time to expect great music (though there may be some) or hear a great message (though that may also happen) or even to end up feeling better inside once it's all said and done. The expectation was that you were meeting with family for a shared purpose, to worship and serve God.

One of the lines in the Table Project video is: "Imagine the church feeling intimate. All those faces in the hallway becoming recognizable." Yeah, imagine that. Only, it can really happen in real life, not just online. But that needs to be the expectation. When the attitude is that attending church is equivalent to punching a spiritual time card, then all the social networks in the world aren't going to make a difference.

The Table Project - Introduction from The Table Project on Vimeo.

Saturday, January 15, 2011

What the World Needs is Reconciliation

More from John Alexander:

"...What the world needs more than anything else is reconciliation. At the heart of all our problems is broken relationships; symptomatic of those broken relationships are racism, war, child abuse, ecological degradation, drug addition, oppression of the weak, divorce, abandonment of the elderly, indifference to the poor, and on, and on, and on. What the world needs is a sign that reconciled relationships are possible. It needs the church to be a beacon of light for the world, a counterculture, a contrast society.

"And that is what it is all about. The church is a sign that reconciliation is possible. Jesus prays 'that they may be one even as we are one.' That is not some abstract reconciliation but concrete reconciliation: blacks, whites, and browns, men and women, ignorant and educated working together in peace. It means people working closely together in the church without ruling patterns of hatred or coldness or grudges or cliques. It means a contrast society."

Monday, January 10, 2011

Doc Rock's Chart on Creation/Origination Beliefs

This is my recreation of a chart that I first received from my 9th grade geology teacher, Dr. Roberts. It gives a general sense of the variety of beliefs regarding the origination of the universe on a spectrum from "beliefs derived solely from the Judeo/Christian Bible" to "beliefs derived solely from scientific studies without any acknowledgment of God". There are many more varieties of belief that probably fall between these two extremes, but this covered the basic set of theories as they stood back in the mid-1980's when Doc Rock handed these out to our geology class.

I have also added a pdf version and an Excel spreadsheet version of this same chart if you'd like a downloadable copy.

< --- Bible only         Science only --- >
Topic Traditional Diluvialist/ Flood Geology Gap Day-Age Non-Concordist Non-Christian
Views on the Bible Bible is the inspired word of God and contains much science. Bible is the inspired word of God and contains much science. Bible is the inspired word of God and contains some science. Bible is the inspired word of God and contains some science. Bible is the inspired word of God and contains no science. The Bible contains little or no science.
  Views on Nature All Nature is the creation of God, God's handiwork. All Nature is the creation of God, God's handiwork. All Nature is the creation of God, God's handiwork. All Nature is the creation of God, God's handiwork. All Nature is the creation of God, God's handiwork. Nature originated by natural causes, not from God.
Views on the Age of the Earth 6,000 years old (young Earth) 6,000 years old (young Earth) billions of years old (old Earth) billions of years old (old Earth) billions of years old (old Earth) billions of years old (old Earth)
Interpretation of Genesis 1:1-3 Earth was created about 6,000 years ago out of nothing in six literal days. Earth was created about 6,000 years ago out of nothing in six literal days. Original Creation    -- Destruction --  Re-creation in 6 literal days The days in the Bible correspond to geologic ages. Bible gives a "theological" (not scientific) description of creation. An ancient myth of creation.
"Day" in Genesis 24 hours 24 hours 24 hours geological eras geological eras 24 hours
Fossils were never living things animals that died in the flood Fossils are remains of animals and plants that lived in the geologic past. Fossils are remains of animals and plants that lived in the geologic past. Fossils are remains of animals and plants that lived in the geologic past. Fossils are remains of animals and plants that lived in the geologic past.
Sedimentary Rocks created in the week of creation the result of the flood The sedimentary rocks were deposited in ancient seas during the geologic past (during gap). The sedimentary rocks were deposited in ancient seas during the geologic past (during days). The sedimentary rocks were deposited in ancient seas during the geologic past. The sedimentary rocks were deposited in ancient seas during the geologic past.
    Tries to link science and the Bible. Tries to link science and the Bible. Tries to link science and the Bible. Doesn't link science and the Bible.  
Attachment: docrockchart
Attachment: docrockschart.pdf

Saturday, January 8, 2011

Free to Love

In the movie Happy Feet, there were stern leader penguins who fit the stereotype of  sanctimonious church leaders to a T. In fact, their Scottish accents and the fact that they were referred to as "elders" makes me wonder if the screenwriter hadn't grown up in a stiff Scottish Presbyterian church. The media, even the Christian media, has painted a very clear picture of the problems of arrogant, inflexible leadership. But one of the religious opposites to that uptight, old time religion is the radical, hip young leader. With a shaved head and a soul patch, these cutting edge preachers show that it's not all just about rules. Grace is important, too. In fact, it's so important, that if you don't do grace the way they do grace, then they're going to treat you pretty much just like a sanctimonious church leader would and shun you. I've seen it happen in various denominations, in various locations and among various ages. The theme is the same: I get it and you don't.

John Alexander writes,
"I've been in many places where people were committed to radical discipleship..., and my observation is that in those places we were not lovers of God or of each other. That's what failure is--failure to love God and each other. My conclusion is that confronting people with law, even Jesus' 'law,' doesn't free them to love. Instead, it sets up a dynamic of condemnation and tension and anger and superiority. An understanding of the law (or better, a misunderstanding of law) sets people up to try to straighten others out. to fix each other, whether anyone wants to be fixed or not. When that happens (which is often) live-in churches [which is the type of church Alexander was a part of] explode in fiery holocaust. All in the name of Jesus. ... Oddly enough, none of that frees people to love."

Jesus said that others would see that we are his disciples by our love for one another. He never said people would make the connection due to our understanding of the creeds, or our cool music during services, or by how authentic we are, or how polished, or how well we create a spiritual ambiance. All of those things can be helpful to people depending on their personality types, but they're not the crux of the matter. What shines out of us and lets the world know that we are followers of the Christ is our love for one another. At least, that's what Jesus said. You don't have to be cool to love people better. But you do have to be humble, and caring, and kind. And you do have to practice. And you do have to take time to love others well.

And as we become conduits of God's love, loving those that are different from us as well as those that we "click" with or agree with or feel comfortable around, that in turn frees others to love. That is the gospel in action.

Grace and Love and Sabbath Rest

More quotes from John Alexander's book:

"'Don't be anxious' isn't mostly a command. It's mostly a promise. A promise that God is taking care of us. That is at the heart of everything in the Bible. Not that you must gird yourself up to grind through some costly duty, but that God loves you so much that you're free to stop guarding your rights and to start loving extravagantly."

We fail to "grasp experientially the grace and love of God. Gene Edwards illustrates this beautifully. Imagine a man buying a horseless carriage when they first came out without grasping where the power came from. Suppose he knew he wasn't to use horses any more, but the person who sold him the car forgot to tell him about the ignition. So some days he sits in the carriage and goes nowhere, and other days he gets out and sweats and strains to pull the carriage himself. This is the Christian life if we don't grasp that we have died and Christ is the power, Christ the one who lives our life through us. We really can't do it. So we either sit around in our magnificent theology going nowhere, or we strive to be good Christians with tragic failure after tragic failure. We don't quite grasp that our power, the ignition switch, the driving force of our lives, is the love of God in Jesus. But that doesn't mean we do nothing, that we sit in the horseless carriage without moving. No, it means we zip around on the love of God."

"...Sabbath rest is little more than an embodiment of salvation by faith. At least, that's the way it seems to me."

"Sabbath is about God being in control of the whole universe and lovingly holding his people in the palm of his hand."