Monday, February 21, 2011

Church Growth

Our church is pretty small. It's grown and shrunk numerically several times since it started in the early 80s, but at the moment we're at 27 official members and we average between 35-45 people (including kids) in attendance at a Sunday morning service. The topic of numerical church growth has come up now and again within the congregation and just recently the pastor sent out a pdf-ed copy of a publication on church growth (which I've attached at the end of this post in case you'd like to read it). I do think that our church would be healthier if it grow numerically by another 10 or 20 people (at the least). But the publication, though it had some good things to say, still struck me as a bit fishy. So this is my response to it.

Location, Location, Location
I think this section and the accompanying graph say a lot more about the American population and real estate trends than anything else. I suppose the take away here is, "if you want to grow numerically, locate your congregation where people are moving to." That said, it's this exact mindset that has traditionally left the poor and impoverished (those who can't move as easily as the rest of the population) with anemic churches. Central Alliance, the church that I was a member of back in Detroit, is a perfect example of this. The congregation carried on and had important ministries within the city, but it was a shell of what it had been. And once the white folks left town, they didn't really look back and help support the church they'd abandoned. Out of sight, out of mind. As Keith Green said, "Jesus commands us to go." But at the same time, Jesus said we'll be his witnesses in Jerusalem, Judea, Samaria to the ends of the earth. (Acts 1:8) So it seems to me that we start where we are before we move out. If all the Christians were to leave Jerusalem, where does that leave Jerusalem? (CFHL) So location is important, but I don't think following the masses is always the answer.

The "fact" that "Congregations grow in locations where they find like-minded people" tells me that the gospel does more in regards to numerical growth when it's ignored. What about Galatians 3:26-28?
So in Christ Jesus you are all children of God through faith, for all of you who were baptized into Christ have clothed yourselves with Christ. There is neither Jew nor Gentile, neither slave nor free, nor is there male and female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus.
If the gospel breaks down superficial barriers of race and class, why would we seek to rebuild them by searching out and collecting people that think and act just like us? Is the gospel so weak that we need to ignore it in order to spread it?

A Combination of Factors
The article then explains that there are several factors that lead to numerical church growth: denominational loyalty, congregational vitality, confidence in the future, and serving as a moral beacon to the community. It then does a great job of not explaining those areas very well.

Denominational Loyalty: The article doesn't mention this again. I also don't see how denominational loyalty fits anywhere into the gospel, so I'll likewise jump right past it.

Congregational Vitality: The article doesn't explain what it means by this term. However, it does say that congregations that report having high vitality also promote themselves through radio advertising, evangelistic campaigns, personal witness, revivals and big events. In other words, with the exception of personal witness, the "vitality" of a congregation depends upon how well the church markets itself - how big and grand the congregation is portrayed through advertising and events. In other words, vitality has very little to do with the spiritual maturity or growth of the congregation or individuals within her and has quite a bit to do with how the congregation is perceived by people at large, whether or not the perception in any way matches the reality of who the congregation is.

Confidence in the Future: Apparently having confidence in the future means having "a clear sense of mission and a crisp organizational style." In other words, a congregation that has confidence that the path they have set before themselves is right is the congregation that will grow. They don't have to have confidence that God holds their future as long as they have a clear sense of what they hold for their own future.

Moral Beacon to the Community: Why be a spiritual beacon to the community when you can direct their morals instead? Why call people to God when you can call them to good works? I'm all for outreach ministries and committing to social justice issues. But God didn't call us to be a church in order to affect the morals of those around us. He called us to be a church to, as a group of believers, incarnate him. (Romans 12) Sure, that will lead us to commit to social justice issues and to reach out to others, but the forming of the body (Romans 12:5) comes before the actions of the body. We should be calling people to join us in the body, to join us in following Jesus. If we're growing because we have a social agenda, then what are we calling people to after all?

Uplifting Joyful Worship and Spiritual Nurture: Worship and nurture weren't listed in the combination of factors, but they were mentioned in a small paragraph in the midst of the articles elaboration on the other points. Again, it doesn't define these phrases and, in fact, it doesn't mention spiritual nurture again in the paragraph, focusing instead upon how churches with contemporary forms of worship grow more than churches with traditional worship. (What counts as contemporary or traditional is anybody's guess, but we'll assume they're referring to praise songs over hymns and the "sing then preach" format of service over a more traditional or liturgical style.)

Everything Else
The article then briefly mentions several other factors that lead to larger congregations: more worship services, a plan for growth, a website related to growth, a young congregation, and a newer congregation are all positive inputs towards having a numerically growing church. In other words, to grow you should increase your number of services, write a plan, make a website, kick out your old people, and if you're already an older congregation, you should just give up now.

The Gospel and the Church
In Matthew 28, Jesus told his disciples to go and make disciples of all nations. That certainly implies growth. It also implies disciples. I find it striking that this article doesn't really talk much about discipleship. In fact, the closest it seems to come to that comes on page 5 where it says,

Another critical interplay to consider is that between numerical growth in membership and participation, and growth in other critical dimensions of congregational vitality such as spirituality, commitment, discipleship, service, and financial giving. All are important!

All are important, but the article isn't going to waste more than one sentence on those topics. And I think that's telling.

What is more important, that 1000 people come to Sunday services and feel more positive about themselves and the world around them when they leave? Or that one person comes and learns how to be a disciple of the Christ? Sure, 1000 disciples would be better than 1. I get that. But 1000 non-disciples? If growing means abandoning the gospel, or circumventing it with Evangel-babble, then I'm not down with that.

Cornerstone, a mature little church
Like I said at the beginning, our church is pretty small. It fails on most of these areas that the article says we should be strong in. We've been around since the 80s, which makes us an old congregation. We sing hymns and follow an order of service, so we miss out on the contemporary boat. We don't have any radio advertising, no evangelistic campaigns, no revivals, and the last big event the church had led to a church split. In other words, when it comes to following the facts laid out in this article, we suck. It's no wonder we're so small.

But if we look at that one little sentence in the article, the one that mentioned stuff that was so important that it got an exclamation point, then I think we're doing alright. In terms of spirituality, commitment, discipleship, service, and financial giving I think we have a mature and well grown congregation. We've been put through the furnace on a number of occasions and a whole lotta dross has been burned off. Just in the decade that our family has been members in this church, I've seen people grow in ways that I haven't seen in most other congregations I've been a part of. Sure, there's still more dross to be burned off. We still have a long way to grow. But I am confident that what Cornerstone is growing is disciples, not attenders.

Some Good Things to Say
When I first mentioned the article I did admit that it had some good things to say. There are some areas that we need to grow and I think that having a sense of ourselves and our purpose is one of those. When we were looking for a new pastor a few years back, the search committee spent quite a bit of time talking about who we were as a congregation. I thought it was really helpful to be part of those conversations and to get a sense not just of what I thought of us, but what others of us thought of us as well. There was a lot of agreement on our strengths and weaknesses -- our congregation definitely has its own personality. But we've never had those talks as a congregation.

There's something about getting together with other people and talking things out that helps build ownership. When I was in InterVarsity in college we spent a week at the end of each school year talking about where we'd come and where we were heading. It gave the leaders a better sense of where they should be leading and it gave the rest of us a better sense of what to expect and how we would fit in over the coming year. It built community, it gave us direction and it built cohesion of purpose and activity. In the ten years we've been at Cornerstone we have yet to have a church retreat (where discussions like this often take place). We've had many congregational meetings, but they're often a matter of covering specific issues rather than brainstorming about who we are and where we're headed. I think Cornerstone would benefit from something like this. It might not make us grow numerically. But it would help us to acknowledge where we're mature and where we're still lacking. And it would give Cornerstone another chance to do what we already do pretty well -- BE the church rather than just go to church.

11 comments:

  1. I went to an Acts 29 meeting today and one of the points made in the lesson was that the "key" to growth was not in the right graphic designs or the right music or the right clothes that the pastor should wear (though those things have much validity in method) but that the key to growing a church (from a pastor's and leader's perspective) was by dealing with the idols of your people in a one on one situation on a regular basis (discipleship basically). One thing I love about Don is that he strives to do this. I love that!!

    I've been through a church split that took 350 members out of our 650 member church and it is unbelievably painful. It's hard to get motivated again after that and begin reaching out to the community. It takes time and healing. Today at the meeting, the pastor told all of the church planters (who were mainly from the South like me) NOT to expect growth to the point of being a self sustaining church for at least 7 to 10 years out here. He said that in the South it usually takes 2 to 3 but here it takes at least 7 to 10. Growing a church out here is unbelievably hard and there is a lot of spiritual darkness to deal with in this area but it can be done. You were absolutely right to point out that it can't be done through gimmicks or compromising the gospel. It's not good enough to have numbers. The church needs deep and lasting growth through gospel driven love (true sacrificial love) and discipleship to both the congregation and communtiy beyond the walls of the church.

    I would put it this way. You want Kingdom growth, not numbers growth. This takes time and sacrifice on behalf of every member of the congregation. Each member should seek to first, lift up, edify and disciple each other and then take the strength they gain from that, plus the passionate love of the Cross of Jesus Christ we gain when we understand our sin and His sacrifice and bring that boldly into the world around us. We should never seek to be separated from the world. We should seek to go into the world with confidence that Christ can and will redeem it through us. This means, not just seeking to redeem people, but literally every aspect of our life. Our family, jobs, hobbies, what we do when someone hands us the wrong change at the checkout counter, etc.

    I'm proud of Don's deep passion for this and I believe it is in you too!! I believe that you all have what it takes to do this through the knowledge and love you already have been given. I would say that this is the time for Cornerstone to rise up and take dominion of FC (not in a weird way, but a LOVING way) for Christ! If the church is where you say it is then its only moments away from reaching more lives for Christ. There are 37,000 students right in ya'll back yard that need love and who are broken and often poor and DEFINITELY HUNGRY! haha! The opportunity for true growth couldn't get any better, but the congregation has to seize that opportunity by breaking down whatever barriers are stopping you, be it timidity or lack of acceptance or whatever the case may be, and bring the gospel to the people around you. If each of you took one non-believer under your wing and discipled and loved them, spent time with them, you would double the size of the church in about a year. That's awesome to think about!!

    I say that you all have the greatest opportunity you could hope for and an environment so rich and ripe for the Harvest that its ridiculous. something like 85% of Christians become believers before the age of 21. That means, go get some High School and College students immediately, feed them, love them and share the love of Christ with them through action and word.

    That's my take. :-)

    Mark

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  2. Meg, I think you're spot on with all the points you raised. Sure, it would be great to have more people there, and if you keep working at being church for real, which it sounds like you guys are doing, then I should think growing numbers will be the natural result. A church where people are being real - that's so much more important than all those external factors, so much more attractive to new people.

    p.s. did that document not mention praying? I'd have thought that's the main thing: taking your needs and desires to God, and listening to whatever he guides you to do. and then doing it.

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  3. actually, the problem was RUF. we had several college students and when RUF came to town they took them all over to the new church. our college ministry completely bottomed out at that point and hasn't recovered.

    in the past we've had college students involved in bible study, sunday school, staying to eat at potlucks and we've provided goodie baskets to help them get through finals. all of that came to an abrupt halt with the introduction of RUF on campus. :-\

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  4. You offer good interaction and a good assessment of the sociological study. It is a study after all, and it helps to understand those social dynamics from that point of view. Those factors this study sights are things that could easily apply to any "religious" group (as seen by the mega-nonChristian "church" that used methods of church growth and grew to 15,000+). It ignores the essentials such as prayer, the Holy Spirit, the Gospel, and so forth. Nevertheless, it was an interesting study.

    By the way, we need to get these pictures you have on Cornerstone's Facebook page. :-)

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  5. That is definitely really sad! It will be hard to start from scratch for sure unless someone has a passion for that specifically, but maybe you all could do some events like a BBQ or something at the church with free food once a month and invite all of the college students around the church. stuff like that might help get a few College students. Now if you really want College boys, maybe you could pay some really pretty College girls to come to the church for a while! HAHAHAHA!!! Totally kidding! I'll be praying for you all for sure!

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  6. i definitely have more than one non-believer that i hang out with regularly. i don't disciple them, but we do talk on occasion about spiritual matters. i have relationships with them because we're friends, not because i see them as conquests. i'm also pretty well connected with the middle schoolers in our neighborhood. we've brought people to cornerstone, neighbors who were what you'd probably call "seekers." it was pretty exciting to have them in the congregation because they looked at everything with such a fresh perspective. but they stopped coming after awhile. i think the wife had a really hard time with how conservative the congregation was.

    i say all this to point out that we are involved. we are connected intimately with the lives of kids and non-believers in our community. and we're not the only family in the congregation that is. but being involved in people's lives, and talking to them about spiritual matters, does not mean that they're all going to suddenly flock to our congregation.

    in fact, one of the gals in the last photo is a non-christian friend of mine who i invited to join us. she really enjoyed walking around the ponds with us. cornerstone is by no means an island unto itself. most of us have many friendships with non-christians and most of us have invited them to a church event at one time or another. but being involved in people's lives and inviting them to join us does not mean that they're all suddenly going to flock to us. it would be nice if it were as easy as you say it is. but in my experience, it just plain isn't.

    there are new churches in the PCA that i've seen grow much faster than our own congregation. i would call these neo-PCA churches because they often try to follow the Redeemer model as opposed to what is often considered the more traditional (or stodgier) model. but with all of these church start-ups that i've either been a part of or watched from the sidelines, the bulk of their membership came directly from other churches in the area. (i've also seen these churches grow, syphon incredible amounts of money out of the MNA, and once they've particularized, they leave the denomination. personally, i don't see that as a sustainable model for the denomination, but that's a total tangent.) it's easy to grow quickly when most of your new members are straight out of other congregations. and people are willing to leave other congregations for something new and exciting. (the attached article was pretty clear on that.)

    cornerstone isn't new. and it isn't exciting. but it's faithful. it's welcoming. it's nurturing. and it's a church in the biblical sense, where everyone is involved and not just there to take in the show.

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  7. this is kind of what you and lois did once, isn't it don? i'm thinking you all hosted a neighborhood meal a couple of years ago. (by the way, i think the deadline for monetary applications for neighborhood events is coming up soon. you can get up to $500 from the city to host something.)

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  8. :-P i hate uploading photos to FB. it's such a pain in the butt.

    which pictures in particular are you hoping to have up there? i'm pretty sure i've got links in FB to all the albums that i've posted to multiply. it's so much easier to post them here. (hmmm, i don't see pics of our walk around the lake up there. i wonder if i put them on my own site instead. i'll have to dig that album up.)

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  9. coming back to this, here's the loud thought that's rattling round in my head: seek first his kingdom...

    when we talk about "church growth", do we mean "church" in the sense of our own congregation, or in the sense of the body of believers in Jesus? he told us to go out and make disciples, and yes, a natural result of people becoming disciples through us can be that they join our congregation - but then again, they might not, they might prefer some other congregation for whatever reason. I think it's important to to remember what the really crucial issue is - making disciples for Jesus, spreading the good news of salvation. whether or not they come to our specific church has got to be secondary.

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  10. i think this is a good point. and the first thing that pops into my head is the soul types book.

    like i said, our church has a very distinct personality. i think that's true of every church i've been a part of. (hence the What is your Church's Personality book.) the personality is made up of the people and people of similar personality will feel more comfortable there than others. (which was the whole point of the article's comment that church growth happens when you plant your church among people who are similar to you.)

    everyone should be welcome in every church, no matter their personality type. but not everyone will feel comfortable in every church. that's just how it goes. either the church can bend a little, the person can put up with feeling like they're not really connecting to God, or they can move on to another church. i think the first and last option are worth supporting. i think the middle option sucks (and i've been stuck in that middle option before. i can tell you from experience that it sucks.)

    one thing i like about fort collins is that there's more interaction between churches, and more acceptance between churches, than i've experienced anywhere else i've lived. i don't know that we support each other real well, but at least i don't feel like we're tearing each other down, either. (and yes, i've been in cities where the tear down attitude seemed to prevail. dorks.)

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  11. yes. "everyone should be welcome in every church... but not everyone will feel comfortable in every church" - we can do our best to make people feel welcome, but whatever we do is not going to work for everyone. we've got to be mature enough to allow people the freedom to go elsewhere if that's what they really need. one of the things I really valued when we moved church a few years ago, was the friends in our previous church who understood and supported us in our decision.

    and I also valued the reaction of the pastor in the church we moved to, who wanted to know why, and showed wise caution rather than jumping up and down with joy at two more people to increase his numbers.

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